POTENCY SESSIONS
One-off, deep dive, 1:1 sessions
Often we intellectually we know we want to feel, be and live differently but don’t know the practices and steps that work in our particular lives. So our Potency Session is focused on creating a supportive ecosystem of practices, resources and rituals for your pleasure.
For the sake of infusing more pleasure in your everyday life, body, and relationships.
For the sake of feeding your expanding pleasure spectrum and choices.
For the sake of you remembering to pause, listen, trust and invite more pleasure, more often.
For the sake of feeling more alive.
I wholeheartedly believe feeling pleasure more often begins with feeling supported and resourced to listen, trust and remember the possibilities and opportunities that have been there all along. Rather than the often alternatives of seeing our relationships with pleasure being a something to fix, problem-solve or pathologise. So, for that reason, our session is a hybrid of coaching and consulting to guide you deeper into your existing relationship with pleasure through this process:
You do a reflective pre-questionnaire. Before our session, after booking, you do a reflective pre-questionnaire about your focus, needs, wants,
hopes, and dampeners.I devotedly gather aligned practices, resources, and rituals specifically for you to remember your pleasure. Based on your pre-questionnaire,
I prepare and gather aligned practice, resources and rituals for you. I come researched and ready with choices and options.We meet for our 75 minute recorded session to prioritise your pleasure. I offer you wholehearted presence and care as we explore your
tailored practices, resources and rituals to ensure they feel aligned and supportive and do-able steps. You receive a recording so you can revisit
and remember anytime.The outcome? You complete our session with a collection of practices, resources and rituals that feed your aliveness, guide you back to your self and
pleasure. A collection of tools to feed your pleasure ecosystem for now and the future.A month later I email you to check how you’re going. This is a chance for you to share and ask any questions you may have after beginning to explore.
Make your desire for pleasure an (re)embodied experience, not just a conceptual desire.
HOW DO I KNOW IF A POTENCY SESSION IS FOR ME?
Over my 8 years of pleasure coaching, I’ve coached literally hundreds of people and have created a “methodology” in response to the reoccurring needs, wants, dampeners, and possibilities for pleasure I’ve witnessed. Here are some questions you might be asking that I can support you in through tailored practices, resources, and rituals.
How do I feel more present in my sensations and feelings, when I'm “too much” in my thoughts?
How do I allow more pleasure when I believe I don't deserve to, or feel unsafe to?
How do I feel pleasure in the everyday moments beyond sexual pleasure with other people?
How do I safely build capacity to feel more aliveness, charge and pleasure?
How do I listen and trust myself for the sake of feeling more aliveness and pleasure?
How do I resource myself in my non monogamous relationships?
How do I be more playful with my pleasure?
How do I prioritise my pleasure, while I have people pleasing and overgiving tendencies?
How do I feel connected to my body when I experience body dysmorphia and/or gender dysphoria?
How can I feel pleasure in life, even when I'm feeling stressed and overwhelmed?
How do I feel pleasure and not disengage when more difficult feelings like sadness or anger appear too?
How do I become confident to articulate my needs, desires, boundaries and fantasies?
How do I slow down and savour pleasure more?
Message me if you have a question or focus you would like to explore in a Potency Session, but you’re not sure if it’s a focus we could explore.
THE DETAILS
Please only choose this payment plan if you need:
“My time with Euphemia was miraculous. The space Euphemia creates to be witnessed, coached and guided in the most gentle, generous, thoughtful and safe way is like nothing I have ever experienced. It’s because of that I was able to make some truly impactful and long lasting changes in my lifes beliefs, thoughts and actions as well as…the connection pleasure has with self worth.”
“Euphemia has a wonderful holistic approach that has brought more pleasure into my life. I’m not naturally super attuned to my body, so they shared a lot of helpful techniques and perspective shifts. Now, I’m more forgiving, accepting, and willing to give myself the space I need to explore my pleasure, especially through expanding the definition of pleasure. I feel so full after learning these practices, and I feel confident to do them now in my own life.”
WHO WILL BE POTENTLY RESOURCING YOU TO REMEMBER YOUR PLEASURE
Euphemia (they/them pronouns) is a full spectrum pleasure coach and bestselling author of Slow Pleasure.
Euphemia is trained in somatic coaching, International Coaching Federation, sex-positive education, sexual violence counselling, trauma-informed facilitation, and has a background in Community Cultural Development.
Their work aims to support people to feel more aliveness, pleasure, and nourishing connection. Even despite our collective crisis of pace and disconnection. They’ve been featured in Elle, Cosmopolitan, Vice, Harper’s Bazaar, and multiple national radios and newspapers.
They are particularly dedicated to resourcing and cherishing people
‘Slow Pleasure’ is both the name of Euphemia’s best-selling book and their theory of change. By learning to access the full spectrum of pleasure, drip by drip and microdose by microdose, people can feel their own aliveness and reestablish a nourishing connection to self, others, and the land. Euphemia understands pleasure and somatics to be a journey of creating moments to pause, listen and remember, rather than ‘fix’ or pathologise.
THE DETAILS
Please only choose this payment plan if you need:
“Euphemia really works with you as an individual and works with your needs and wants and creates a safe space for this all to unfold with magic and beauty (sometimes without you even realising). I cannot recommend Euphemia higher. Euphemia is very intuitive and full of knowledge! They are able to understand your needs on the day and work with you no matter what you bring to the table and no matter what mood you are in. Euphemia creates a truly safe space for you to open up. They are an outstanding pleasure coach and honestly worth every penny (or whatever currency your from). ”
“My potency session was amazing. A beautiful addition to other coaching time spent with Euphemia.
The impact the tools and practices have on each and every corner of your life is sometimes unexpected but once you know, see and feel their impact there is actually no turning back and life becomes incredible. One of the best things i’ve done!!”
“Euphemia creates a sparkling safe space to tap into unique and personal understandings of pleasure, and guides you to practices that are just the right fit for you.”
“Euphemia was the voice of reason in confusion and a light in the dark. They put me completely at ease and their non-judgemental attitude meant that I could openly express things that I had wanted to for a long time. Their follow up email with information and resources was unbelievably comprehensive and prepared me as I continued a journey of self-discovery. Thank you! Highly recommend.”
“Thanks to Euphemia’s deeply attentive listening, insightful questions, and playful curiosity, my body is finally being invited into a conversation my brain has been dominating. As someone who often feels very “in my own head,” it is transformative to be able to hear what my body is trying to say, and to experiment with expressing my personality and my energy physically - it’s like my whole sense of “self” is expanding. After >2 years of feeling pretty defeated and hopeless about a slow injury recovery that’s left me with chronic pain, limited movement, and body dysmorphia, I left our session feeling confident, empowered, curious, and optimistic about the journey I’m on with my body.”